Ever dreamt of roaming around a new terrain like Rani from “Queen” ? Or Maybe you are Veera from the movie  “highway”, who wanted to enjoy the very journey of life without worrying about the destination.

Or do you relate with Laila from “Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara”, who craved adventure and zeal? 

Whether you are Laila, Rani or Veera spirited, all of them have one thing in common, which is : The urge to travel and seize every moment of life. To be carefree yet being careful at all times. Is that your vibe? If yes, then let’s dive deeper into solo travelling. 

Solo travel for women has for a long time been a topic of intense discussion. Girls embarking on solo journeys is not something that is widely encouraged or accepted.

It’s often seen as something going against societal norms, Indian families care a lot about what the neighbours and relatives would think if they allowed their daughters to travel alone. 

• Here are some tips to convince your parents to let you pursue your dream of exploring the world:- 

1. For starters, start with a parent who is easier to convince and always remember that puppy dog face can go a long way.

 2.“It’s not safe”,  One of the most important concerns that Indian parents have when it comes to letting their daughter solo is - safety. Stress on the safety precautions that will be taken throughout the trip and keep protection measures handy. 

3. To not let finances be a hindrance to your travel plans,  pay for your trip!  Start saving before talking to your parents about the trip. 

4. “Will you not get bored alone?”, here stress the whole point of a solo trip is to travel alone as it can be a part of the discovery. 

5. “It will be too expensive.” A lot of money can also be a concern for some parents. In those cases, it is best to operate on a set budget. 

• Here are few “safest cities in India”  that can be on your list, if you’re planning to travel solo :- 

1. MUSSOORIE 

The famous locations like Shimla and Himachal draw many tourists and are probably on your bucket list, but have you heard of Mussoorie? 

It’s a tiny, picturesque hill station. Sitting in Uttarakhand, it’s a 30Km uphill from the capital city of the state Dehradun.

Most visitors find it to be a  respectful and welcoming location. Being a popular tourist spot, the locals are used to seeing foreign faces and  are mostly  polite and helpful.

Your Tourist attraction list sorted :- 

1. Library Bazar 
2. Mussoorie Mall Road 
3. George’s Everest House 
4. Lal Tibba Scenic Point 
5. Dalai Hills
6. Gun Hill Point 
7. Kempty Falls.  

2.  KASOL

A tiny little hamlet on the banks of the river Parvati in Himachal Pradesh, Ranging from cheap food to cheap accommodation. This place offers things to enjoy under every category of budget. 

Himachalis are known for their warmth and hospitality. Crime rates in Kasol are relatively low. The village maintains a welcoming ambience, making it an ideal destination for solo travellers, couples and families alike. 

Your Tourist attraction list sorted :- 

1. Take a relaxed stroll by the river Parvati.  
2. Visit the famous Manikaran Gurudwara.  
3. Shiv Temple. 
4. Trek to Kheer Ganga. 
5. Discover mountain Biking Trails. 
6. Manikaran Hot springs. 
7. Explore cafés and local cuisine. 

3. Jaisalmer 

Dramatic and romantic desert fortress of Jaisalmer is an exotic city in Rajasthan‘s great Thar desert, most famous for 12th century fort and ornate Havelis, find merchant built houses and pavilions in the city’s medieval lanes. 

Travelling solo to Jaisalmer from any part of the world would mean unveiling a city not just rich in Its heritage, but also the hospitality. 

Your Tourist attraction list sorted :- 

1. Jaisalmer Fort 
2. Patwon ki Haveli 
3. Gadi Sagar Lake 
4. Jaisalmer War Museum 
5. Vyas Chhatri 
6. Salam Singh ki Haveli 
7. Longewala War Museum. 

4.  SPITI VALLEY 

Driving  through the rugged paths of Spiti is every traveller’s dream and witnessing the glory it holds is an experience one cannot put into words. 

When we think of adventure mountains, the Spiti Valley solo trip is what comes to our mind. If you’re planning a solo trip to Spiti Valley, there are a few things you should keep in mind first and foremost be prepared for the rough as it is the high altitude, you need to take precautions to avoid altitude sickness, such as staying hydrated and acclimatising gradually. 

Your Tourist attraction list sorted :- 

1. Key Monastery 
2. Chandratal Lake trek 
3. Pin Valley National Park  
4. Dhankar Lake
5. Baralacha La 
6. Nako village , Kunzi
7. Hikkim  

5. LADAKH

A rugged landscape, teamed with one of the most breath taking views in India, Ladakh is truly spectacular and a true heaven for adventure seekers. Solo travellers find Ladakh to be one of the safest places. 

 Ladakh tends to be moderately safe at night, especially in the main town area where crowds often stay up late.

Your Tourist attraction list sorted :- 

1. Pangong Lake 
2. Khardung La
3. Nubra Valley 
4. Magnetic Hill 
5. Shanti Stupa 
6. Thiksey Monastery 
7. Zanskar Valley 

At Beyond Road Tours, your well being is our top most priority. Your safety is our prime concern.  

You can assure your parents that safety is taken care of along with a well researched itinerary, accommodation  and all arrangements. 

Just try to provide your parents with as much information as possible to help them have peace of mind. The more you can help them feel like they are on the trip with you, the better. 

Keep in mind that this is going to be a continuous conversation. Bringing it up once isn’t going to be the best approach. It might not work out right away. Be sure to keep a calm head and learn to move on from a conversation before circling back. 

India is an incredible country. Despite its many circumstances, it’s also one of the most fascinating and vibrant places you’ll ever witness, and we strongly feel that travelling in India is a very subjective experience. 

It can be scary, travelling alone especially when you have never done it before.  But if you ask us,  going over without experiencing everything you want from life is even scarier.

Tell us in comments how you convinced your parents to go for that solo travelling vacation, we would love to hear you out.